Hey Teak,

I think you are right, now I have my own place, it almost feels like ‘what next’, like I should be straight out into the dating scene again. I am yes, definitely feeling the pressure to not mess things up next time, but I think I am also feeling a sense of calm, that I definitely know what I want and need from a relationship, and will be able to choose carefully before becoming too involved, and also to be honest with people I date about this. You are right, I shouldn’t let the pressure get to me, it is after all wise to enjoy the moment, and not have a ticking clock always making you feel on edge.

Thanks for the advice, I have joined two meetup groups in my area and have planned to go to two events in the next few weeks, I’m a little nervous about telling my friends about these, as I’m not sure if they would judge, but then again, they are all in couples, so it would be hard to understand my position right now.

Thank you again, my dad is recovering, but requires a lot of care.

All the best to you,

Dave