Dear sossi:

What if you sell your apartment and move out of the country you are in, move somewhere that will be friendly and welcoming to you?

“I want, for my colleagues to say something about this treatment. It’s not right. I want my boss to realise her double standards“- I don’t think that it’s realistic to expect your colleagues to stand up for you, and for your boss to realise she was wrong- because it didn’t happen so far, so..  why that would it happen in the future…

“I have complained to my parents that I cant keep going on they are anxious that I don’t quit more than anything else. So then I feel guilty and just keep going….I want to make a really big sale… sot hat I can show them that I’m good at what I do“- imagine no longer caring what your parents think you should do… and not caring  what your colleagues and manager think about your ability to do a good job…

What if it doesn’t matter what they think, and all that matters is what’s right for you?

anita