Dear TeaK,

Thank you once again for ur reply.

“People who know you in person know that you’re short. Your height isn’t something new to them, so it didn’t really get “exposed”, because it wasn’t a secret in the first place. Your friends and acquaintances accept you as you are – they don’t mock you, do they?“

= Yes the people who know me know about my height but this time that person posted when i was standing beside a boy who’s 15cm more taller than me…. I never stand beside him and this is the first time and the pic got posted. Many random people wont know if that guy is really that tall, what they can see is that i’m very short compare to him. This is what causes my insecurity…. And in that pic most girls are about the same height as me because they wear heels, but they use long sleeve pants and the heels got covered…. I’m so doomed that it look like their real height with me is the same.

And i also don’t think it’s totally because of my mother, i remember girls said that they like taller boys, i know i’m short but i always make sure i will look less short and reducing the gap between the taller guys, but that “post” really showed how short i am compare to that 15cm taller guy. Before my mother commented on that pic, i already feel so insecure that it got posted.

If i didnt attend that gathering this wont happen… it’s basically my fault for being careless, i should’ve predicted those girls wear heels…