Dear Mollie:

“I guess what I was hoping for was a response tailored to my scenario to put my mind at ease i.e whether you think that my case is a matter of obsessing, whether my obsessions are not healthy“- (1) your personal scenario reads pretty much like any of the other aka HOCD scenarios I read over the years, (2) yes, it is a matter of obsessing, (3) yes, obsessing is unhealthy.

“and generally what you think about my scenario”– I think it’s  like any other scenario and my replies to others are the same as my reply to you would be, re-read my replies to others= my reply to you.

“whether it is something to be worried about“- you worry about a non-issue (your sexual orientation) because OCD is .. the real issue.

anita