Dear anna:

If I understand correctly, you are in a long distance relationship (LDR) with your husband in the last three years. Can you share more details, such as when did you visit with your husband in-person last time? What are your plans (for you to move to where he lives.. or for him to return to where you live)? And when you say that you caught him cheating: what kind of cheating and how did you catch him, being that the two of you are in a LDR?

anita