Dear Lindsey:

Sorry for another disappointment. Maybe 2022 will be a better year in regard to men in your life!

“How does someone take you to a nice dinner, buy you their favorite book for Christmas, ask personal questions and then end up where I am now?  I want to understand the why.  Would someone really do everything listed above just because they want sex?“- of course. A man has to be nice if he wants sex. I mean, he can pay a prostitute and avoid the nice dinner and other niceties, but that will cost him more money! Or he can force a woman to have sex and risk prison.

I am not saying that all men think this way, but many men all over the world do: a man has a better chance to have sex with a woman if he is nice, if he makes her feel that she is cared for. Don’t underestimate a man’s need for sex.

anita