Dear Anita,

What a Bombastic phenomenon of the phrase. It has required an additional amount of patience giving due time to understand further. I have read it and understood it.

This is especially extremely extraordinarily words to give.  You are as brilliant as – Alshaba – terrorists are very wiser people who think extra mile than the normal people.

Congratulation Anita,  you have really read  ” books” and I wanted to be a surprise small photocopy of Anita in South Sudan.  My hands up.

I think I am a good judge of character. I usually have a quick gut instinct about others and I think I generally make wise decisions about the people I surround myself with.

Anita,  thanks very well described literature with a sense of reasoning. Its beyond and clearer.

Our keenest generations especially within South Sudan are different perpetrated earth’s Animals in the history.

Their Google history is unsafe.  Both are essential in making most out of their lives.

The way you dress and the way speak are accurate representation of how you view yourself.

Our generation adapted a system of East Africa – very Immoral generations .

When you dress in jeans all the time,  to me, that represents that u are down to earth.  If you dress   up even when you are at work,  that represents that you feel important and you have a statement to make. Dressing down in a sweat pants and tee – shirts  represent comfort in any given situation.

Behind every system of actions are systems of beliefs.  The systems of a democracy is founded on beliefs like freedom,  majority rule, and social equality.

Once your pride gets involved, you will fight tooth and nail to maintain your habits.

Simple equation that make a powerful state Behavior a function of the person in their environment. I.e South Sudan 
Or B = f(P, E) .

Every living being has its own methods for sensing and understanding the world.
Eagles  have remarkable long distance vision.
Snakes  can smell by ” tasting  the air ”  with their highly sensitive tongues.
Sharks can detect some amount of electricity and vibration in the water caused by nearby fish.  Even bacteria have chemoreceptors – tiny sensory cells that allow them to detect toxic chemicals in the environment. 

In humans,  perception is detected by the sensory nervous system.We perceive the world through sigh, sound,  smell,  touch  and taste,  but we also have other ways of sensing stimuli .

So here is the dealt –  George Orwell said that to see what’s in front of one’s nose requires a constant struggle.

Well, the solution to our stress and anxiety is right there in front of our noses,  and we are too busy watching porn and advertisements for ab machines that doesn’t work,  wondering. Our girls are introvert….. they don’t values marriage nowadays.  With this let me put u into this and you will concur with me. 

In South Sudan, and Dinka culture in particular, men pay a lot of cows in order to marry. Take an example the picture you see above again, 

I have extremely suffered again to pay a dowries of  195 head of cattles. Which is 200 cows again.

But the worst part of it,  girls still go for their ex bf not her but some whom I even know.

And they says – some men have to be check before marriage us? Who can check who? The one who paid cows to be checked or the one whose cows are paid for to be owned?

And they says we don’t cares!! Why do they allow an innocent cow to be slaughtered during the final agreement of both negotiators?  It is not to beautifying blood but oath to show this girl is no longer among others girls on the streets again but now a married woman.

who don’t mind about the originality of anything he/she buys? If in your culture you don’t pay cows and money the way we do, then you are free to marry any prostitute.

virginity is not stupidity. It is stupidity from people who have high appetite for sex and who think that sex is a basic needs.

Anyway, anybody is entitled to his/her rights to do what you likes but they should know there’s tomorrow and a different of one who paid cows and who is not.

Happiness is contagious,  so if you are happy, your child will be happy with you.

So stay happy and let your child see that despite various problems that life throws at him when he grows older, he can always find a reason to be happy. Raising a child to be a responsible young person and having a happy mindset is not easy.

The right kind of feedback   interaction,  and moderate guidance can help you make your child grow up to be a happy individual. Am I clear Anita,? Am I  saying facts to be heard and see? 

And this I’m a real icon man who love one woman,  who believed ladies are the same everywhere. Who think when you mould the woman u have , treating her nicely,  feeding her , dressing her , she definitely produces for you the handsome and beautiful babies u want in your heart.

I know it will require time to settle down first and through it again Anita.

Be blessed.

Gregory.