Dear Lindsey:

Happy Friday to you too, and congrats for being officially a girlfriend.

“Things that I’ve found make me feel a bit objectified” – I wonder what those things are. Maybe (?) his behavior is not objectifying but you feel objectified because of having been (unfortunately!) objectified by the ex-husband.

You are taking good care of your dog! I miss Hunter the beagle, our neighbors’ dog who used to visit repeatedly every day for years. Watched two videos of him last night.

I hope the mediation goes well and that it will give you some peace of mind!

“Last night ex and girlfriend called kids on their I Pads.  They asked questions directed negatively toward me… She asked, ‘Ella you look tired’ and they both repeated that to her. Also, he asked questions about if she had completed her work and a badge for Girl Scouts” -the comment that Ella looked tired and the two questions: I don’t see how they are directed at you. How or why are the comment and two questions directed at you?

anita