Dear Lindsey:

I think better not because he may figure that you are trying to undo your guilt with a cookie, making the issue trivial. I’d postpone the cookie gesture and when you get the chance, tell him in a serious tone that you were wrong to have allowed the gross guy to message to you the way he did, that you blocked him and that you are sorry that it lasted as long as it did. What do you think?

(I’ll soon be away from the computer for a few hours).

anita