Dear Angel:

Back in July 2020, you “sounded” reasonable and calm, sensible, like you were in charge of your life. Fast forward to March 2022, and you “sound” disturbed, rushed, a “girl interrupted” is a term that comes to mind, being in no control of anything at all. What happened in this first relationship of yours? When and how did it become okay with you to continue a relationship with him knowing that he will not marry you,… what happened?

By the time I am typing this, the two of you may be back together (“Over the course of 2021, we broke up a so many times we lost count”) and I have no idea what your relationship with him is about and what a break up is about.

anita