Dear Lindsey:

Happy and a non-anxious Friday back to you. A trip and massages this weekend will be just right for you! Good thing you asked him for reassurance and that he said he doesn’t mind you asking.

So, last night he told you that he had a bad day, that he didn’t have this bad of a day in a long time. You offered him to talk about it to you and he said, “thanks we can talk next time”. Next, you texted him this morning after 9 am, when he is usually up, and he didn’t read it yet. As a result, you feel anxiety about the relationship. I am guessing that by the time you read this message, he already texted you back, did he?

About your ex’s attorney, I think that you should let it go that he approached you at the baseball game. The two of you had social contact before (you went to each other’s home for birthday parties), he had a few beers and he wasn’t mean to you, reads like he was trying to be nice. Don’t punish him for being nice!

anita