Dear Reader:

I hope that Shelby moved on from her ex and from this thread and is no longer following it anymore. Like she expressed in her last post, Dec 24, 2020, she has been doing too much, and to her own detriment, trying to accommodate and help other people (irl and on tiny buddha), having difficulty respecting her own boundaries, having a difficulty attending to what she needs in her own life, for the sake of her own well being.

I did not appreciate Shelby when communicating with her.  I have learned since that it’s her exceptional, consistent kindness and generosity that is the reason why so many people have been attracted to, and posting on her thread in its 154 pages, it being the longest thread with the most participants in the history of tiny buddha.

None of the participants on her thread matched her heart, including me. My best wishes to you Shelby, and please stay away from this thread and stay present in your own life, attending to your own best interest because you deserve the best.

anita