Hi Eric!

To me it sounds like you made sensible choices that fit your circumstances. It is very kind of you to want to help with the family business.

If you would like to learn more about accounting, you could get certification in the financial software the family business uses.

It sounds you’re overthinking a little and compare yourself to others, which is something many people do. Congratulations, you are human!

Joking aside, it sounds like you have a great head on your shoulders and are making logical choices. If you feel like people are being judgmental, you can be honest and explain that you are going to help with the family business. People will view this positively.

It might be worth writing down any information that you find helpful or reduces anxiety about this topic, so you can revisit if you question your choices in the future.