Hi Elena,

Welcome to the forums.  My advice would be to move on back to where you were before you met him.  You were doing well. It’s too early to know this man and what he is about. I agree with Anita, in that he seems to have gotten you hooked in and that’s something to be very easy of, especi i ally after only a few dates.  You owe yourself so much more. You also need time to get to know yourself and what you want from a m an and relationship.