Dear Nichole:

Two days ago, you wrote: “I think in most other areas I’m confident. Like… being a good woman“. As I read your most recent post, I thought to myself: a good woman indeed! The way you express your appreciation, your kind words, and not just today, but over the years… your confidence in being a good woman is valid, says I!

Regarding relying on sugars and friend food for “moments of happiness… that high“, I posted to another member a suggestion that may work for you (maybe not, don’t try it if the idea of it distresses you!): check out the thread Eating my emotions of shame on the first page of topics, page 3, posts of April 20 and 22.

“I just do not know where to look. Most websites are trashy and scary to me. But I guess I will not know until I try?” – years ago I did match. com and later plenty of fish. com (free of charge at the time, maybe still), these two dating websites were excellent, I though at the time.

Thank you, Nichole, for being you!

anita