Dear LexiDee:

I read your correction. You wrote, I was trying to ‘fix’ things that may not have been broken… Lesson learned the hard way“- like I said, you are not perfect, neither am I. I make mistakes every day or every other day, it means that I still have lessons to learn, for as long as I live.

“Lessons learned the hard way” – it is not necessary to learn the hard way, a way that involves emotional pain like what you are experiencing. Lessons can be learned… an easier way. As long as you learn, that’s all that matters. Is it a pattern, that you feel excessively guilty for mistakes made?

anita