Dear anita,

I guess what you wrote about the relationship with my mother reflects into my relationships with women in general? Because of what about the experience with my mother you gave, i guess i can see parallels regarding my romantic relationships.

Thank you for explaining your own experiences again. I slowly understand how you developed your realisations about them. So if i understand correctly, you understood that you were objectified by your mother? Just the way you said that she didnt SEE you as a person, a daughter, a loved one and more like a nuisance which wasnt worth dropping the facade and wasnt worth becoming part of her anima?

I understand what your offer of help means now. I will share information about candidates. Sadly the last ones i visited were problematic, one straight up started blaming me and the other one wanted me to drop my medication. I will keep your advice about competency in mind.

Values is an interesting topic, considering my struggle my with self-worth, i can see the irony in this. But i understand why you feel the connection between meaning and values.

I hope youre having a nice weekend with pleasant temperatures for your walks.

Ed