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I think it’s just “me”…Should I ask him for the last time or wait till I fix my career and then talk to my parents and him.But keeping this hope when the other person is not giving me commitment it will not let me be at peace for a long time. We had parted ways in the very beginning in the first week of talking . I had told him about this at that very time. And then within a week he came saying that if this is in Destiny i am not afraid to fight for it.And also that we’ll see later. I knew it will be hard for me but i knew I am going to try my best to convince my parents and I know they will be happy if i am Happy in the end. There were lot many things like this which he said that are completely different now. Like my family will trust my choice he even told his mother that he will consider me when it comes to marrige.Buf then idk what conversation he had with her made him so much reluctant and he started to push me away.I want to atleast remind him of this and ask if these were his only intentions.I have never done anything wrong throughout with him and with my parents as well. I wanted both of these people to be on the same page where we all can be at peace. I gave both of them time and waited. I am tired of this. He then says things like no one will fit into my family more than you.. you have a very poise nature everyone in my family is like that… No one will love me more than you….I am so happy that I am afraid I will not be able to move on from this if i have to do it if your family doesn’t agree. Then he says i have my brother’s marriage and no time to think about this right now.And also that I have stopped myself from loving you which idk how do he has on and off switch.
All I want to know is whether I should remind and ask him of what we started with or just let it be
How do I find peace with all these questions in my mind. How do people let go of people they once loved so easily?