Hi Girl

It sounds like there is fault on both sides.

A) You are both having sex without protection

B) With the pull out method there is a 1 in 5 chance of getting pregnant.

At worst sexual coercion occurred. Based on what you shared it doesn’t sound like you threatened him.

After asking 3 times you laid down feeling bad and he offered to have sex again.

He may have felt bad about what happened. He poorly communicate his feelings about what occurred. He doesn’t care about you not getting pregnant enough to wear a condom or refuse to have sex entirely. He only cared once he was finished.

My advice is don’t have sex with him again.