Dear Christin:

I agree, of course, that drinking and driving is very wrong and very dangerous. After all the statistics show how deadly it is and how much suffering is caused by the practice. Also, there are many deaths and injuries caused by the use of alcohol in contexts other than driving. Having stated this, it seems to me that in addition to your position on the abuse of alcohol, you are also carrying unresolved anger from childhood, from having had to be too responsible too soon, when you were supposed to enjoy an irresponsible, carefree kind of childhood, and that this anger destroyed the potential of a lasting good relationship with the guy you got along with.

And then having the recent date where you didn’t get along with the guy at all made you realize how well you got along with the guy we are talking about. Any truth to what I posted here?

anita