Dear kajal:

You are welcome.  “Is it fair?“- no, it’s not fair and unfortunately, life is largely unfair. As individuals, we need to make the best, wisest choices we can make every day so to make life a bit less unfair (or more fair) than it is.

Looking back, would you have made different choices regarding this man in the first month of the relationship? Any different choices in the span of the two years relationship?

I am asking this because maybe there are important things for you to learn from this experience. I am sorry that you are so upset and depressed and I hope that you feel better soon!

anita