Dear Sushmita:

You are welcome. “I don’t  see the world same“- it’s a good thing that you don’t see the world the same. I hope that you see the world more accurately. It is my quest to see the world more accurately every day.

“I don’t see myself putting myself through the process of falling in love again“- this is also a good thing, to not see yourself falling. Falling is dangerous. You fall when you don’t see what’s in front of you. Similarly, people often fall in love because they are not seeing what’s in front of them. A woman often falls in love with who she wishes and dreams the man to be, not with who he truly is.

“I don’t want to fall in love again. I don’t want to be lonely as well. So what I am going to do“- I say: don’t fall. Instead, see what’s in front of you. See your parents accurately, see yourself accurately and see potential husbands accurately.

“How long can you fight with your family“?- don’t fight them unless you are able and willing to leave them.

“I have lost myself in this struggle of emotions“- make your emotions work for you, and not against you.

anita