Dear Madina:

“I am terrified to love someone too much, the last time I had big and huge love, the guy used to be physically violent, but I kept loving him and couldn’t leave and break up”- I guess this means that the next time you start loving someone, you’ll make sure that he is not violent before you get in too deep.

“I remember the first time I saw him kissing his wife, I was destroyed, I felt so broken“- this reminds me of the one time I saw my mother (who was divorced from my father) hug a man, the only man she was involved with after her divorce. I  was a child, don’t remember my age, but I cried loudly, out of control, wouldn’t calm down, hysterical.  I never quite understood why. Maybe you can help me understand because you described something similar..?

anita