I just want to ask, why is it so hard to trust someone who hurt you without being aware of it? Yes, my boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years, but during our 2 years in Senior High School, he felt single. There are so many times that he is super close to women, that their closeness is more than a girlfriend. It’s these things that make me sick. We talked about it, and he apologized but my trust in him is broken. Now that we are in college, he mentioned that he has 5 female friends. I don’t know why it hurts me so much to hear this. I promised myself that I would trust him again because he is doing good things for me now. But I felt as if what he did to me would happen again. I’m not paying attention to him right now, I just want to calm down. Will this destroy our relationship?