Dear Gregory:

Thank you for wishing me a good evening and that I sleep well. I wish you the same (it is 4:45 pm in Sudan right now).  And, I am very glad that she promised to take care of your children without mistreating them!

Regarding Q-2: Does our parenting rhyme or will it be full of conflicts?. – First, I am glad that the two of you agree that parenting must not include mistreating the children. I suggest that you talk and become clear about all the specific actions/ behaviors that constitute mistreatment, so that when you live together and parent your children together, the two of you will be a united front in regard to accepted actions and behaviors. For example, I hope that the two of you agree that the action of yelling at the children (except for emergency situations) constitutes mistreatment, and is therefore not acceptable parental behavior.

anita

anita