Dear Katrine Nielsen:

You are welcome. I am proud of you too! It is interesting how you put it: “I’m so tired of having to get over a guy I never had. People keep telling me it’s easier to get over someone you never had. For me it’s the opposite“- I guess it is true that it is more difficult to get over what could have been and wasn’t than it is to get over what was. The reason: what could have been is in our fantasies and imaginations and what was is reality: our imaginings are always (from my experience as a teenager daydreamer)  much more magnificent than reality when it comes to imagined love stories!

anita