Dear anita

Thank you once again for congratulating my date….

(1) no one snatched her before you met her (she didn’t have a relationship before you), so why would she be snatched now…

= Because there are several guys following her social media this month, and one of them was an acquaintance i know (he’s more experienced than me as he has 2 ex’s, and he can do all sorts of male activities such as golf, basketball and he has lots of friends…. The only thing i can win against him is that he drop out of college, and i graduated without any fail)… Well yes, i’m close to this girl now…. But any of those boys could text her anytime, and she might ger swayed… that’s what im worried…. As she might focus on me now because im the only one chasing her… I hope this isnt counted as an obsession…

I know that it was an excellent date because (1) There was a lot of conversation, including about each other’s families, (2) She initiated taking a picture together with you, (3) You asked her for a 3rd date and she agreed right away, no hesitation.

= Well yes it was a good date, but i still have my habit of having difficulties in deciding something… and it’s not a good thing for dating…. Like after we ate in that restaurant, i asked her if she want to have a dessert and she said she’s fine with anything…. And i said to her that im confused… “should we have dessert or not”…. I believe males need to be decisive isnt it. It’s because everytime i hangout with my friends, i’m never the one deciding where to it…. I’m just the follower type….

it is okay that you didn’t flirt with her in-person during the first and second date. If you did, it could have been awkward for you and for her. Think of it this way: the 2nd day went very well, she agreed to a 3rd right away, this means that the date was excellent just as it was.

=well yes, i believe she’s also new to this “dating” thing… but if we both plan to “have a relationship” i believe there should be some flirting… otherwise it’d be just a casual hangout with a friend….

maybe she doesn’t have a significant hobby herself and maybe she would feel uncomfortable playing a sport with a guy she is dating.

= Yeah she doesnt seem to have any specific hobbies, she only loves to watch dramas/movies and some casual hangouts…. But isnt it weird if im a guy but i have these kind of “hobby” like her….

It’s because she has a sister that’s a year older than her and she is currently dating an experience guy (more or less like the acquaintance who follows the girl im dating right now (do sports, manly activities, has lots of friends)… and she’s close with her sister and that’s making me worry…. As her sister has a lot of friends too (her sister friends are like the “judging” type of girls)