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October 23, 2022 at 5:46 pm #408953
Kaya
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Dear Anita, Hello again.

Here is my draft but I’d like to short but not too short.  I have a hard time writing the last word (ending of this letter).
I would like to say that:
I need him to reconcile our relationship because I cannot reconcile myself.
I understand if you do not want to reconcile.
You may not agree with me but if he doesn’t want to reconcile our relationship, I do not want to hear anymore.  I haven’t contacted him for a few weeks and finally, if he refuses me, I could go forward without him.  Yes, I’m a chicken and I have still a hard time accepting the fact.
I have lots of my belongings in his house.  Do I want these?  Yes and No.  I do not want to use excuses to see him pick up my belongings so I decided to not bring it up in our conversation.  If I do not see him anymore, I will move forward without my belongings.  These are materials, I can live without them.

Here is my draft letter and I hope you understand what I would like to try to say to him.
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I have completed my first session of inpatient therapy.  It seems too short for me.  Lots of exercises, meditation, eating healthy, support community and meet other peoples.
Getting from counselor this session who specialized in teaching what I needed. I am horrified to realized the depth of pain  I have cause our relationship. I understand what went wrong with our relationship. I realize that I was the cause of so much of our trouble.  Neither of us is perfect but I have concluded that I have hurt you and pushing you the edge.
I have no excuse for the wrongs that I have the way I have treated you.
I also my words have not meaning unless they are backed up by my action.
I know it will not be easy for you to trust because I have broken promise made to you before.
Getting support from specialist meaning not I have changed now.  I still have to earn, learn and take time.  This is a life long lesson.  I believe that I have to learn every day.  One step forward and two steps back or sometime I need to stop but only I could say to you that I want to change and I will change.
Reconcile our relationship, I cannot do by myself and only if you consider to reconcile our relationship, please contact me.  This isn’t easy and understand if you need to take time to think about us again.  Also, I understand it will take time to reconceil relationship, not jump into happy conclusion.
I have a little hope but I am not excepting hear from you and I understand that if you ever contact me again.
I will end this letter with a very sincere and I wish your happiness always.