Dear Kaya:

I hope you are having a lovely weekend yourself, mine is fine, thank you. “Some of what he said before, is stuck in my head these days.  My counselor told me that one of the reasons for anger was him.  How he treated me or said to me“- so far, before your recent post, you took all the responsibility for the fights and arguments in the relationship, but now- for the first time-  you are giving him some of the responsibility. Would you like to elaborate on his part in the fights and arguments?

anita