Dear Eric:

“I still can’t believe it, I feel so grateful“- believe it because it is happening, and try to be more grateful than anxious.

“As you’ve followed my journey throughout the years to find a ‘girlfriend’, I never thought that I’d meet someone like her. It feels like I found a gem, and tbh i cried yesterday because I feel really really grateful that I met her“- from your descriptions of her, she is indeed a gem!

“But I’m just a young man with no experience in dating“- like I mentioned to you before (and I will not repeat after mentioning it  here yet again), if I was a young woman, I would prefer an inexperienced man over an experienced man,  inexperience in dating is attractive! 

“I still feel anxious that she might leave our city“- feeling anxious about it will not keep her in your city, will it?

“I’d do anything to make her happy“- this makes you a gem in a woman’s eyes… I can imagine a young woman will be very interested in a man who thinks she is a gem and who will do anything to make her happy.

“so worrying about this won’t improve anything?“- no, it won’t.

“Also do u have any tips regarding relationships?“- not at this point, you are doing fine!

“Does a person with this kind of face deserve to be loved?“- yes.

“I know that previously you’ve said that I deserve to feel loved, and you wish you could convince me. But it’s so hard to believe.  Like even my sister said that my face looks hideous, and I agree with her“- the girl you are dating disagrees. There is a saying: beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, meaning that any judgment of beauty is subjective. You think that your face looks hideous, your sister thinks so.. this girl doesn’t. She probably thinks you are cute.

“I don’t like the look of my face in the mirror, as it’s so scary“- don’t look in that mirror then, look in the mirror that her eyes provide: see how she sees you when she smiles at you, and at that time, when she wiped the sweat off your face.

“thank you anita, I also feel a bit proud of myself“- you are welcome, and I am indeed proud of you!

anita