New development. I went to the pharmacy today and they said I had been taken off my wife’s insurance so I texted her and asked if she had taken me off. She said that she had back in September. My medication is expensive so I asked if she could possibly keep it the same. I said that because we’re technically married that by law it’s ok. And she said “but we’re not”. She is then texted “this is a good opportunity to tell you that I’m filing for divorce in January and that she didn’t want it to be a surprise”. I lost it. I started bawling. I guess I should have expected this. She was waiting for the year to pass to file since she had no grounds before this. It’s the finality of the word that makes it so hard. I know it’s just a piece of paper but I didn’t expect it. It was sudden. I’m upset, devastated, sad.