dear Anita

sorry for replying late , i had a very hectic day , first my car didnt start and once it did and i finished my work and came back home , i couldnt lock it!!!!i still can`t .

i wanted to reply to you but my keyboard was nt working , only in this website apparently , lol , i`m writing from my tablet now

that’s a lot of help: I completely forgot to drink liquids. I normally drink very little water/ water-like and no exception when sick, so thank you! (Ever since you told me that you work in healthcare, I’ve been curious to know whether you are a medical doctor…) im glad to hear it , i used to ignore my dehydration too until i found out it has a lot of side effects including increasing my appetite , so i pay attention more to drinking water . haha . and yes im a medical doctor .

 lots of misinformation (mistaken info) and disinformation (purposefully wrong). it`s unfortunately true

what kinds of limitations? And what do you consider desired modesty vs undesired modesty? (I will answer the same, if you want me to). im not sure if i understand your 2nd question , but for the first one: forcing the women in family to wear scarf or an special kind of jijab with is similar to burka , we called it chador , its not actually covering the face as burka . limiting socializing outside even with another girls and the most important one is double standard and discrimination between a brother and sister in the same family , the son can have a lot of freedom and the daughter has none . in the past actually most families deprived the daughter from education , there is an old saying in my pop culture , the man can have all kinds of fun with anywomen he wants but ultimatly he marries a virgin , as you guess that doesn’t apply to women . it was common before in Iran  but alot of men wouldn`t care about their wife virginity now , the majority do .

 I was born, and grew up in Israel, by the way. My first language- as a young child- was French (mother from Morocco, father from Romania) and second, Hebrew. There were plenty of Iranian immigrants in Israel, when I was growing up i was  courios about your nationality i was guessing you live in us but you said i`m in another side of the world away from my mother , so i guessed maybe you are from an Asian country , lol . i met a lot of Israelis with iranian background too , which was weird at the beginning , because of all animosity between Iran and Israel or what they want us to be . i think there are more similarities between islam and your religion than with Christianity .

on peux parler aussi en francais aussi , ca fait longtemps que jai pas parle en francais and jai oublie beaucoup en plus  ecrire en francais est tres difficile et je suis trop paresseure de telecharger french keyboard , lol

 WANT to be miserable though. It’s that they want something (ex., love)… but it happens to be accompanied by abuse.  but some relationships are doomed from the beginning , the way they started i mean

i m gonna share my experience with the guy, im glad you asked but honestly i fear you judged me , please bear in mind it wasnt characteristic to me to be like that . i was working in a heart hospital for a short time because there are some extra internship , we should take for our certificate as a medical doctor to be accepted in Iran , i was working as gp under supervision of the residents , one of those were a guy who was tall , handsome and smart , apparantly he scored highest in board exam even better than those residents with more years of education . he was really nasty to me but i could say he was checking me out whenever he had a chance , i sensed he was nasty because he wanted to get upper hand or something like that , i know this is childish so ignored him completely and i can say i was kinda rude to him and it wasnt really what he expected , after a while we got along , he changed his attitude completely and in one or 2 occasions , we were both awake through the night  taliking and laughing , because we were both in duty , i happened to like this guy he seemed to be genuinely inteseted in me , he was asking about my likes and dislikes and i asked him too and we had a lot to talk about . but after both nights before the morning meeting when i was gathering the result of new tests , he was completely changed , he ignored me completely . that was weird , i finished that short period in that hospital and i had to practice dermatology in another place , i sent him afew messages , like 2 to see what he is up to , he wasnt interested so , that was it , four months afte,r i accitently met him in another hospital we were taliking and he had to go so he said he is going to message me , no message after 3 months . my dad got sick and it was near our new year , the problem was most doctors would go to vacation for at least 2 weeks , in that time we werent sure that he was operable or not , he needed a cardiologist to confirm it or not .

thats hard time to explain i called him and i dont know why >he couldnt do anything because he is not gratuated but he couldt connect me to another people , to be hnest i could connect to them by another ways , ok , i called him but hung out after 2 beebs  he called me back , i explain the situation, he was helpful i giving me someone who was working that time but wasnt symmpathetic towards me particularly , he called me dear , azizam in our language , i keep contacting  him by text , he was at him home , i tried to keep him interested and i realized he is just interested in sex , im not that kind of person but i guess dealing with my dads disease , he contacted me the day he was supposed to return to my city , his work place , and he asked if i return right now , would you come over to my place to have s## , i refused , i told him before thats not my style , she was persisstant and pushy and i said i want to see you in public place before  he was like , but we know each other , what we are going to talk about , the hospital ?he was very annoyed , and i told him i would see him tomorrow in public , he said im h^^^^right now… he convinced me to have a s^^ video chat with him and he got satisfied , and he hung ut immediately , after a while a few days i contacted him , he said he is not available , he had a repair man in his flat to fix the washing machine ,yessss he wanted me at his home , and i was pissed , i didnt say im gonna go his place but i did complain about his rudeness , in the same week my dad passed and i had his photo in my messenger photo obviously , he didnt say anything to me , he didnt see it or he saw it (it was written that my dad passed ,it was story of my WhatsApp account )and he didn`t care to message me , i was so pissed , heart less , it was like he wanted me to hurt more

that was too long sorry

just let me know how do you think about this guy?

farnaz