Hi Tee,

Actually in the post feeling betrayed I was indeed talking about my sister and not a friend. I was too a shamed to say that it was my sister saying that, because at that time I still thought that we were so close so if she said I did it I must have done it. I was really confused especially since the girl believed it (she’s the one with bpd and the one who called me being angry) I even started thinking maybe I did do it cause why would they say it. I only had two friends at that time (apart from my sister) the one with bpd that I no longer talk to and my best friend (the one who always told me my sister was out of line) This all happened on my 30th birthday ( I am extremely sensitive on that particular day) and I was already exhausted coming home on holiday after been working three jobs abroad to keep myself above water.

They became best friends due to this lie. My sister would even bring her gifts from helping her with her computer but never said a simple thanks to me or my parents for putting aside our lives helping her out. It still hurts thinking about it.

At least the past weeks been going better. X and Y even invited me to join their New Year’s Eve party which I agree to. I’m gonna be very nervous, I’m arriving later than the others (something I always hated I need to be the first one there) I don’t know who or how many will be there so it will be challenging, but hopefully a good one!

A very happy New Year to you!