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Katrine Nielsen

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  • #420968
    Katrine Nielsen
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    Hi Tee

    I’m fine during the day but at nighttime everything from the past year comes up.

    Yeah he still writes me. His job is consumming him, since May he’s had one day off and he won’t have until september. And since he works from home he doesn’t interact with other people and it’s starten to get to him.

    I’m going home for some days in August to my nephews 1 birthday which I’m nervous about. I’m planing a lot of daytrips and I wanna go to Amsterdam as well so lot’s of fun things to do luckly.

    #420916
    Katrine Nielsen
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    Hi Tee,

    So I contacted the therapist and she’s away on holiday until mid August so in the meantime I try to go out and enjoy the summer and all the things this city has to offer.

    #420552
    Katrine Nielsen
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    Hi Tee,

    Yeah it was a complete waste of time and ressources.

    I will, I really need it.

    My heel is completely fine now. Thank God, that was really stressful. I’m gonna keep up with the exercises to stay on top of it.

    #420536
    Katrine Nielsen
    Participant

    Hi Tee,

    Yeah so much disappointment. Just one after the other. The previous guy weird behaviour after just prolonged the pain, and receiving this treatment straight after by one close friend was defo not what I needed.

    I got a new computer so now it’s just down to adding zoom and then I should be good to go. Been so overwhelmed lately with injury, overtime and illness but I think I will contact her next week.

    #420532
    Katrine Nielsen
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    Hi Tee,

    I’m sorry I thought I did. I think I was a bit out of it. Feeling hurt by having to go throught this again. Getting my hopes up and everything. And especially since we had our first kiss two days before he left and it was at work so people started taking.

    Need to work on that wound. Stayed longer cuz he was my friend and everybody kept calling him a good Boy.

    #420514
    Katrine Nielsen
    Participant

    Hi Tee,

    Yes, and it was hard because I had to deal with several months of anxiety ever since he said he liked me and wanted us to be dating and it was all for nothing. A complete waste of my resources, and now it feels like I’m losing a friend. People asking me about him at work doesn’t help. I feel like the boy who cried wolf now when it comes to this.

    It’s happened with friends as well, they all say we are gonna stay in touch but they never do. Good thing though I have a lot of fun things to do here.

    #420486
    Katrine Nielsen
    Participant

    Hi Tee,

    Yes, it’s the not being included that has bothered me for a long time. It was his idea to take the romance off the table (after Venice when he told me he would be there over the summer) He doesn’t believe in them because he’s never seen them work out for anybody. So we agreed to stay in touch once a week , take it once day at a time and that I would come visit him. But I would never be flaky with my friends. Like telling them I’m gonna call and then not do it etc. Feeling invisble is one of my triggers. If I make plans with my friends then I’ll stick to it. I’m really hurt because he was supposed to be my best friend and he wasn’t the type but man people really do disapoint you.

    Luckli I can destract myself and get some good experiences.

    #420477
    Katrine Nielsen
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    Hi Tee,

    Well, more people were there including a relative of his and a girl. He was wearing a sombrero and the pictures of them had hearts and the caption my european family. I mean we agreed to take the romance off of the table since we were in different countries, but it made me realise that I don’t want to sit here hoping that maybe one day we will be together, meanwhile he is oing his own thing. I wrote him on his birthday and twenty past midnight he replied thank you smileyface. No I wish you were here or anything.

    He talked about me coming to Portugal several times but didn’t make any plans, I feel played for a fool. One girl at work asked me how I was feeling and how’s life going, I think she saw the story as well. He hasn’t posted any story from his actual birthday which also makes me worried. I don’t want to be in this position anymore and gonna stop contacting him. I’ll focus on myself and going out exploring this amazing city, there’s heaps of events and things to do this summer. I’m thinking about going to Amsterdam for a couple of days (I’ve always wanted to go) and I can get two nights there for free. Y is having a birthday party on Friday and I’m invited, that will be fun and I heard that we will be having a staff party on a boat in two weeks, that’s sounds fun!

    #420449
    Katrine Nielsen
    Participant

    Hi Tee,

    So the doctor that is doing his dad’s surgery got in an accident and needs surgery too. I asked him when his dad will get the surgery but he didn’t reply to that, and tonight his out partying again with his female boss (I think she is a bit older and has two kids) tomorrow is his birthday and this doesn’t feel good anymore. I’m trying to disconnect from it all I think that’s what is best.

    #420234
    Katrine Nielsen
    Participant

    Hi Tee,

    Me too. That’s what I’m afraid of. He doing too many things all at once, I’m going to try and be as supportive as I can.

     

    #420208
    Katrine Nielsen
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    Hi Tee,

    Yeah a lot. He’s studying online and I think he said two years before he finish. He seems overwhelmed at the moment so I really hope his dad is going be okay.

    #420138
    Katrine Nielsen
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    Hi Tee,

    Yeah it is. I miss going out with him exploring the city. He sounds very stressed at the moment like he doesn’t know what to do, maybe he will feel better after his dad’s surgery. He only have a couple of hours free at night after work and studying unfortunatly.

    #420124
    Katrine Nielsen
    Participant

    Hi Tee,
    <p style=”text-align: left;”>It’s season dependent. So he didn’t earn a lot when working abroad, and now he has to work every day until september without days off, after that it gets slow again. So I think It’s best for him to get a normal 9-5 kinder job with time off every week.</p>
    Yes, very different from what I’m used to, and he really wants to create a better life for himself which I admire. He came here on his own as a 21 year old and didn’t speak the language. He taught himself everything which is amazing.

    #420111
    Katrine Nielsen
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    Hi Tee,

    Yeah, especially when he really wants (and needs) stability.

    I completely understand him. But your right he has a big family (three siblings) and they are all there for him and then he will call them regularly. He cares a lot for his family not sure if he helps out finacially but I know a lot from Brazil who send home money to help out. He wants better options and more safety than Brazil, he has had guns on him a couple of times and would always carry two cell phones (one to give in case he gets mucked and his own phone) he has pre settle status here same as me, so he can come back. He did mention something about childhood trauma and some things he didn’t quiet agreed on with his family but he very much cares for them. He seems very worried that he will loose someone close to him cause he’s never had that happen before and is scared of how he will react to it. His granddad also needs surgery so it’s two family members dealing with illness, and then all the work and studying. I hope I can get him to realise that he needs a more stable job. I know how much that meant to me, knowing that I had stability in just one part of my life, and I want the same for him.

    #420106
    Katrine Nielsen
    Participant

    Hi Tee,

    Thank you.

    Yes, the only person that can cover for him is his boss and she hasn’t had a day off since May. I’ll ask him if he’s thought about finding another full time job with more stability. Because this isn’t good for him.
    <p style=”text-align: left;”>Yeah he doesn’t seem as happy with it anymore. He’ll be working on his birthday and he’s vuneralble if he gets sick. Also there’s nothing for him to do but go to the beach. I thought he had family there but it’s just one person and they dont know each other that well.</p>
    Well apparently the doctor told him he was fine and didn’t need it, and then he started feeling worse and they went to another doctor Who told him he needed it. But by then he is in Portugal and can’t be there when he gets his surgery whicht he hates since he went home for two months so he could.

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