Hi Anita, your last statement got me thinking, what kind of direct question do you suggest I ask her?

“Can she tell that I flirt with her sometimes? I know she is quite an observant person“- maybe she can tell, maybe she can’t tell. I wouldn’t know. My suggestion, again, is to not assume anything, but to go by what she clearly says to you. If she doesn’t say anything clearly, you can ask her a direct question so to get a direct answer.

anita