Hi Swanky

I’m not sure about your culture. But certainly in mine same sex employees visit each others homes if they are friends.

Another factor to consider is, if a rumour is circulated that you are gay at your workplace could that result in you being fired?  Also, does the manager of the other department have any say in whether you could be fired? Does your company have a policy on coworkers dating? Not to mention their policy on management dating a subordinate.

If I were you, I wouldn’t pursue this in my culture even if it were a heterosexual relationship. I wouldn’t want to cause any drama in my workplace. Best case, you get into a relationship that you have to keep secret or you’re both fired or worse. Not to mention, what happens if a relationship fails or you’re rejected.

I’m curious why you’re attracted to someone that has the potential to cause so many issues in your life. Is it quite difficult to meet other people interested in same sex relationships?