Dear Swanky:

I do feel sorry for you, empathy is a better word. It makes me sad because I wish that you still had that excitement going to work and I wish that you had the love relationship you want. One more thing, sexuality is not as binary as once thought, particularly when it comes to women. Most women (so I read in a research) are not 100% straight or 100% gay, there is a lot in between, and your boss may be one of those in-between.

anita