Hi Dave

It’s good to hear that you’re 50/50 on the chores and housework.

This is a welcome surprise since you were so hard on yourself earlier when you were calling yourself lazy and suggested that you spend a lot of time socialising after work.

The thing is that your wife has given birth three times and she isn’t as young as she used to be. Even though you are doing 50/50 on chores and child care. Your family might benefit from some extra help. Three year olds are exhausting and you said yourself you have no time together. If you hire a baby sitter and take some time to go out together. That could be a welcome break and allow you both a chance to be a couple again.

You are still the same person she has always loved. Perhaps having another young child has put a huge amount of strain on your relationship?