Dear EvFran:

You are welcome and thank you for your kind words.

“She said I could help myself with anything in the fridge and in the kitchen… she had 5 old jars of honey open with one spoon of honey left in each. So instead of opening up a new jar, I just finished the old ones… It took her 3 days to tell me that she was angry with me because I had finished the honey jars!…  Something must have triggered something in her mind“-

-reads like the old jars of honey in the frig gave her a sense of comfort, and when they were removed, her comfort was removed and she got angry.

“I am lucky to be surrounded  by beautiful nature, it really helps me to go for long walks and be thankful for small things like a fresh breeze, a butterfly, cute flowers, the sound of the rain on my roof“- talking about comfort: the fresh breeze you feel on your face, the butterfly and flowers you see, the rain you hear.. these things give you comfort.

“still don’t know what to think about all these vanishing“- one way to think about it is: what is this person’s comfort? What is that other person’s comfort? And if it is possible, ethical and right: give them their comfort, or don’t take it away.

anita