Dear Katrine,

glad you’re slowly feeling better!

It’s going the right direction for me, reacting less and less. I feel like I’m in a better head space now to date, so I can enjoy it rather than it being me trying to distract myself.

That’s what’s important – that you’re less and less anxious around him, less and less emotionally reactive. I am really happy for you!

When he wrote me earlier this week telling me that he was going back at thf end of this month and told him that I really hope that he comes back since I feel like we are getting closer and being more than just friends. He said he feels exactly the same, which made me happy.

Good, so you made it clear that you have feelings for him. And he feels the same…. which is amazing!

He also told me that he is coming back is looking for another, which might be better for us since right now he’s working 12 hour shifts 6 days a week so we don’t have much time to see each other.

Wow, he’s really working long hours! Is it his choice, because it doesn’t seem like something the employer is allowed to request? I mean, he’s working 72 hours per week, which is way way too much. I do hope he finds another job because this is unsustainable…

He is very sweet and even after working 12 hours starting at 5 am he would go out with for drinks with me and stay until 9pm. I take that as a good sign

Definitely! The poor guy must be suffering from burnout and is probably in dire need of sleep, but he still finds energy to hang out with you… that must be love 🙂