Hi Tee,

no, I did spend some time with him in person before deciding to move to his country. I guess he was showing me his good side and mirroring me, what toxic people do..Plus, I did ignore a few red flags.

I hope soon I’ll be strong enough to cut contact with him altogether..

It’s just I’m even more lost now because I feel I’m losing two of my friends, one of them someone who I considered my best friend. I don’t go out, I have no money and barely any friends left here and being normally an active and joyful person, it’s hard to accept it. I hope to get a job at least soon, so that I could travel and afford a therapy.