Thanks a lot, Tee. That’s exactly what she is doing. She has stopped giving him money but still buy him food. He lives separately in one of their apartments, I think he doesn’t need to pay the rent. Therapy would be a good idea. Apparently he has read many books on psychology, mainly on how to manipulate people. I can fully understand that nowadays it’s not easy for young people. Moralizing is not a solution either. I just don’t know how to support my friend. They are absolutely clueless because he just doesn’t want to do anything…. I promised I would talk to him but don’t really know what else i can say.