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Dafne
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<p style=”text-align: left;”>Dear Tee,</p>
It felt really good to read your message. I understand now the concept of circular dating much better and also can see all the side effects it may have if overused. I’ll try to follow the coach you recommend me and heal my heart first.

Tee, some days I feel really bad and helpless. My best friend moved abroad and I also can’t expand my love search to other places. I have to stay in my small town and help my elderly as they are in need. I feel stuck. I’m between helping them and trying to meet someone somewhere else before is too late. It would be ideal if things would work out with that last man I met. He is local, single now and loves his parents. Unfortunately, he has some other issues now.

Tee, I know that you told me to not contact him first but I really feel like sending him the last message asking how he is doing and if he is up to meeting for that Yoga class or walk (not sure if I should suggest him a specific date and time?). And if he doesn’t answer or rejects the idea of meeting outside, I will move on and try to forget him. I’m not sure how to phrase it but would like to give it a try as he promised to do it without giving me a specific date. Last week his son was over at his place but this week might be a good moment to give it a last try.

What do you think Tee? Would you help me to create that last text (to not sound desperate but nudge him to follow his promise in a light, funny way)? How would you write it?

I would really appreciate it 🙏

Thank you for all your support dear. I don’t know what I would do without you. Your presence gave me hope for better tomorrow. I was really close to giving up on my life but thank to you a spark of light and a reason to stay is with me.

Thank you Tee 💝

Have a good night 🌛⭐️

Dafne