Dear Helcat,

Thank you for the answer.

“Summarising what I gathered from this is that you flirted with another woman while you were drunk and hugged or cuddled her. Would you agree?”

I even wouldn’t say cudddled, but there was a drunk hug, yes. My assume is that she expected kiss or something but that didn’t happened.

“I think that if you told your partner she would be understanding especially since you feel bad about it. Do you think this is true?”

I’m not 100% on this, but I think that she would understand in the end.

“It sounds like a source of anxiety for you linked to your earlier fantasies about exploring options outside of your relationship. What do you think about this?”

I definitely had a lot of anxious moments because of that, simply I had a strong feelings of missing out. It was not helping that I was surrounded by frineds all the time, who were going on casual dates, exploring and even telling me that I’m missing out a lot.

Thank you for your words 🙂

Wish you all the best too!