Hi Helcat

Worst case would be if something worse happened while you were drinking in the future. But watch your drinking around women when your partner isn’t there would prevent any issues.

I totally agree. This is just one of the additional reasons to watch my alcohol intake in the future.

How are you feeling about the marriage this summer?

I love my husband very much, but when it came to getting married I still had doubts even though I knew it was what I wanted. It’s a very big decision, potentially life changing. That alone is enough to give anyone doubts.

Honestly, I also had doubts. Given the nature of my relationship (a relationship since 17,18 years old), I wondered if I was ready, if I needed to experience anything else in my life and if I was doing it out of habit. Every relationship is different so the doubts are, but I believe that many have them. It really is a big, life changing decision and maybe we are never 100% sure.

What helped me to settle down with getting married is a fact that I really see her as my life companion in the future. I get support, respect and love from her and I am asking myself what else do I need. Also, the thought that she is the mother of my children makes me happy because I believe she is the right person for that.

In the end, the thought of hurting her really make me sad and that’s why I started to write here. I really believe she deserved the best from me.

If you feel the same way or similar for your husband, I think that getting married is not a mistake.

Hope that this helped you a bit.