Dear Gavin:

“I hurt her, but she has clearly got over it and moved on quickly, so the only person I really hurt in the end was myself…to her now I am nothing but a faded memory of indifference“-

– if she has clearly got over it and quickly moved on, and to her you are nothing but a faded memory of indifference… if the only person you really hurt is yourself, then in your mind, you didn’t really hurt her, or you hurt her temporarily with no residual affect on her, not enough for her to even remember.

Am I understanding correctly?

anita