Dear Nick:

You are welcome.  “I get emotional but I have no reason to be crass or vulgar” I like the way you put it. I wish lots of people would NOT get crass or vulgar when they get emotional. Unfortunately, too often, the two go together.

“She has played the victim a lot.  So it’s probably an easy part to play“- People who play victim find it easy to victimize someone else, and they feel morally justified in doing so.

“It’s nice to have someone else’s perspective“- anytime you want my perspective, you are welcome to it!

anita