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anitaDear Justaguy01:
My best guess is that she is not clear herself about what she wants at this time, that she is conflicted and confused. If she was clear about wanting you in her life, she would have contacted you.
This no-contact is very difficult for you and it’s getting more difficult. The Waiting is excruciating.. or is excruciating too intense of a word? If excruciating pretty much describes it, better send her an honest message asking her to tell you her honest state of mind in regard to the relationship with you as it is.
Make it a short, polite request, nothing long or heavy. I think it’d be fair: not too demanding of her and fair to you because you are suffering. What do you think?
anita
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