Dear Justaguy01:

When you offered her to have the space that she appeared to need, it was a good idea in theory. But in practice, it was not a good idea because it’s been too difficult on your end. In your most recent post of a few minutes ago, you again think in-theory (“eventually, if I see.. then…“), but in practice, eventually is excruciating.

I don’t want you to suffer, and I never met you. I wonder if she is wondering how you are feeling, whether you  are suffering or not. Shouldn’t she wonder…?

anita