Anita,

my mom has dogs that whimper and bark when I approach her door. My mom will know it’s me and come out even if I just drop it off and leave. She will come out. Secondly my therapist doesn’t want me contacting my mom because it’s not good for me mentally. Thirdly. I am concerned my mom may call police on me if I come on her property because she has called police on me in the past. Is it ok to let it go and not return it if it would endanger my well being? Should I just wait to mail her a replacement when my financial situation improves? I feel I might arrested and go to jail if I go on her property. I can wait until June when my fianancial situation improves because I’m paying installments to stay in a residential mental health program later this year. There are no friends or third parties to contact her or take the tea to her on my behalf.